Hello my beautiful friends and family, how are you? Today, I am going to inspire all the men around the world on how to take care of your derie ( your wife, girlfriend, lover, woman in my own opinion. Women are like flowers, women need to be taken care of and not be hurt physically, emotionally nor verbally.
- Send her flowers
- Be a good listener
- Give her compliments
- Do not be selfish in bed., rather touch her and give her affection, not once a week, or in a year, but on daily basis.
- Gift her, please do not send your wife gift that is not from your heart.
- Please do destroy her items, rather help in maintaining it
- Men avoid verbal, mental, emotional abuse towards your wife.
- Do not take items or your wife’s belongings and sell them or give them to another woman without her knowledge.
- If your wife can not make children, please see a doctor, do an ivf (invitro fertilization) if need be. Please do not insult her due to inability to get pregnant or try to solve the pregnncy issue by yourself as a man, rather do it together.
- Never judge your wife. Leave God in heaven to judge. If your wife makes mistake, do not beat her up in the house or on the street, rather correct her, guide and coach her
- Some men do set their wife up with other men in order to test her faithfulness towards him. Men, do remember that your wife is only human and not God, so please do not tempt your wife, rather, coach, teach, uplift and love her unconditionally.
- If your wife offends you, forgive her instantly, avoid setting her up with togs, implicating her or to a vulnerable situation.
- Do not stop her hone, her home internet connections, her browsing history, rather trust her
- These above-mentioned tips are also applicable to women. Women should also be nice, kind to their husband.
- Men, if your wife does tell you what she likes and not like, please stick to that, please do avoid engaging in the same activities that may upset her. For example, if your wife does like a tidy home, please keep it tidy all the time.
- Please do not ears drop on your wife, spy on her or deceive and lie to her, rather, protect her, guide and love your wife.
- Have fun and enjoy your marriage life.
- Never blame a woman for mistakes she did not commit intentionally. For example, if you just met your girlfriend, if you never asked her if she was married or not in the first place, before entering a relationship with her, do not blame her afterwards when you find out she is married because you never asked her in the first place. Some married women and men do keep their marriage status to themselves when they are not asked due to privacy reasons. It is not in my place nor yours to judge such individuals. Rather, be very sure of whom you are dating before finally deciding to marry them eventually.
Disclaimer, I am not a marriage expert rather, I am writing in regards to how I would be liked to be treated as a wife, hence I have some marriage experience.
I am very pleased to announce to you all that I have finally started writing my digital book here. Thank you all so much for your love, kindness and inspirations.
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xoxo
Ekene Patience
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